Originally Posted by Imapolygirlmaybe
It's never a set day during the week. Just depends on everyone's schedules.
Well...COULD it be a set day? Or at least a date set a few days ahead of time each week? That might solve some things, although it might bring up things on her end, if she is feeling jealous and acts up right before. But then at least it would be more clear what the issue is, and you and bf would have a day you knew it was OK without having to do any more asking permission to have sex. (Which btw, if I was in her place, having my husband ask me if it was ok if TODAY was the day it was OK to have sex with a gf, I would probably be thinking about that a lot and it'd be more stressful than if plans for a sex date night was gone over a couple days before so I'd know when it was, but it wouldn't be the last thing I heard when I last spoke to my husband for the day? I can't picture being in this situation, so I don't know how helpful my advice is or if that how it's set up, but I thought I'd give it anyway