Getting a good flogging has nothing to do with sex for me. It has everything to do with a theraputic release. I don't find pain physically exciting..I find it emotionally healing. It's a way yo deal with my feelings of guilt from past mistakes because I don't have another outlet.
That's not to say sexual activity is not part of our play at times, but that's where bondage comes into play.
Bondage is for excitement..pain is for therapy...that's how it works for me.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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