Originally Posted by nycindie
Okay, Mono posted this on RP's thread and it got me wondering...
This comment just made me curious. Is it really a turn-on sexually to have people kiss your shoes? I mean, I could understand it as a playful, power trip sort of fun game, but I know for sure I wouldn't feel any sort of arousal from someone kissing my shoe (I would be worried about whether it was clean or something like that). Or is sexual arousal not what D/s is all about?
Its the control.. and act of domination and.. the willingness of the sub..
There is also, for some, the size difference. Might be kind of empowering to have a big strong man licking your boots if you are small 5'4.. for example