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Old 07-18-2011, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Phy View Post
I don't know if the emphasis on family stuff made us look older or younger, wondering about that at the moment
What struck me was how concerned you are about Lin's family being "on board" (and it sounds like he lives with them?). At least for me, as one gets older, you generally don't give a shit what relatives think about your business. So, I actually thought you all were a bit younger, but 20s makes sense to me, too (I am 51 but have always been very independent and never really cared what my family thought or said about my life -- but that could have to do with growing up in the 60s and 70s).
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