Originally Posted by Setxfamily
We are not really swingers. We tried it once and it was not for us. We really prefer the poly lifestyle or at least steady close friends we can spend quality time with.
we are swingers. but we are not looking for a fuck and run relationship. we are actually looking for a longterm thing. never thought that getting rejected by a swining couple would be an emotional event for us. but we have been turned down by our last 2 swinger dates because of internal marrital problems with the other couple. we are tired of the drama. it seems swining brings with it all the same problems that college life promiquity does. we are wanting to settle down with a couple that is "our couple" our *Best Friends with Benefits* if you will.