Freedom and commitment in Poly-fi relationships.
I used to enjoy a life where I had complete freedom to have many partners, now I have a committed Poly-fi relationship.
I was talking with my husband the other day about how at some point, hypothetically, I may find it a challenge to be committed to not having more men in my life. What do I do then?
He said that I can have it one way or another, and that Poly tends to be one way or the other....
Either I could have total freedom (experience anyone I want)
total commitment (with a select few in a family manner).
While I agree largely, I wonder if people can balance this? How can a balance be achieved under such circumstances? I just wonder if there is a possibility to continue to be comfortable with the freedom I have in my commitments for the long haul?
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Last edited by redpepper; 10-18-2009 at 03:35 PM.