Okay. I did talk to her tonight. But not about any of this. I don't want to overwhelm her. We just talked friendly and joked about some stuff, had a good time. I'm trying to just leave her to chew on some stuff. She did admit tonight, that she was really upset with hubby because of this other girl. He had told A about her and so she's really pissed. Probably not his best move, but at least it was honesty. But, he had originally lied to me about flirting around with this other girl and A knows that, so that seems to be her biggest frustration right now. That he had lied to me.
Married 12 1/2 years. Female. Straight. New to poly.