Originally Posted by nycindie
Is that what you want?
Like I said in my original, I'm not there yet, but I'm getting there. He's not being pushy about it, but we do discuss it. He asks me how I see things going if we did, how things would play out for me to be comfortable, etc. It's good conversations that allow me to see things and play them out in my head before I commit to something, so that way I know exactly where I stand.