I had mentioned in a previous post that my partner asked me to write a letter "requesting" a meeting with the new gf because the new gf was unhappy that a "demand" was being made. My partner wanted me to use specific language in the letter that didn't feel natural for me but I did it. I removed the posts within 12 hours due to having been too identifying.
i'm not sure anything is moot for the new gf could change her mind. I would gladly place the whole letter here redacting names if I thought it would help.
Do let me know and I'll see how it reads without names etc.
thank you all,