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Old 07-10-2011, 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted by dragonflysky View Post
I told him up front that I had no interest in being in a secondary role in a poly relationship, but in a shared primary. He agreed that he didn't want me in a secondary role. When he decided it was too stressful and too much work to commit to seeing me on at least a once a week basis requiring a one hour drive, I decided this relationship wasn't for me. I was accused of being jealous and emotionally immature and needy by both of them...and "probably not cut out for polyamory."
Oh, really! Because you wanted to see your loved one once a week, too demanding? And how often did the other "primary" see her beloved?
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