To SeventhCrow; So far as 'actively searching' for a couple, I didn't have a post on Craigslist or anything of that nature. With the experiences I have had regarding searching, I have found that it was perhaps safer and definitely less frightening to meet couples naturally, face to face in a comfortable environment and then see if the attraction was mutual. I have, however, been found between more than one couple in my past, with the best intentions in mind... Just none that have ever engaged me more than physically.
Just the enlightenment that I have gotten from this site has allowed me to feel more open regarding things I believed to be somewhat taboo, and its nice to have this as a venue. My thanks to those that have made this possible.