Originally Posted by Somegeezer
I'm scared of what would happen if I were to get my partner pregnant. It's something we have discussed, but not acted on all that much. We agree that if it were to happen, at this point in my life, I'm not ready, and couldn't handle that responsibility. She already has a child who needs her time and attention too. We have unprotected sex. Neither of us have diseases, but there is the possibilty of pregnancy still. We have talked about contraception of many kinds and one of us always feel it's not something we'd enjoy [me using a condom, her on the pill]. I just feel that's not enough though. I feel like I should just stop with the sex until something is sorted. Until it is a definite rule or something.
I highly urge you not to risk it, being in the situation I am now in, I can tell you, it was not worth it.