Don't thank me! All I did was take everyone else's advice from the threads I've been reading and summarize it for ya!
There really is a wealth of information in here and with the people here. Very kind hearted souls with great big hearts. I've never in my life felt so accepted. Even though how I came to a poly relationship is against what nearly the whole population on here finds acceptable (even me) they still opened themselves to me to give kindhearted advice without cruelty or severe criticism and it's greatly appreciated.
I think you will find you make friends hanging out here-I certainly am.