Heck that is all anyone can ask for in any type of relationship.
To be able to work with details of comfort, needs, desires and dreams as they come along.
I have really enjoyed reading Ceoli's posts as well. I've also found Mono's VERY helpful-especially if you start with the older ones and work forward.
There are many very insightful, thoughtful and thought provoking threads on here.
You might find that you enjoy talking to Maca some as well. He's my husband. He's new to the idea of poly and has always considered himself poly (i've never been poly I think in my whole life). He's just starting to come to terms with the idea and is struggling with some of the details too. He's not on as often as I am though! Boy he works too much!!