Originally Posted by floundering
The one question that I have is was your guy being sexually and romantically monogamous with you? Was that not enough? I am asking, not judging. All of our lovers have friends and it seems like that was what his "partner" morphed into. I am not you, but I would have taken that deal.
It seems he was - yes - though he was also 'engaged' to this other person, quite publicly. And he didn't talk to me about that 'til AFTER I had met his partner, which I do think is a bit odd. That seems like a rather major piece of information concerning his relationship.