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Old 07-08-2011, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by ray View Post

Not properly communicating desires/limits with each other
Placing excessive rules on outside relationships
Attempting to isolate a partner
People not willing to meet you halfway
Partners who give you none or very little power in the decision making of your relationship
Metamours who don't welcome you
metamours who refuse to work through their own problems
People not wanting to give your relationship a label even after being together for months
Highly closeted folks
I would add unwilling to put you in touch with metamours as well as that could indicate lying and cheating.
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