Originally Posted by floundering
She says that she wishes this had not happened and that if there was a way to break up with this woman without hurting her she would.
I don't think there is ever a way to break up with someone without hurt feelings. It is the nature of the beast. She can do her best to soften the blow, but I guarantee feelings will be hurt.
I think your wish to have a fluid-bond with your gf only
is completely fair. Since the sex isn't so great with this new chick, what's the big deal? As Dr. Phil says, "stop doing it." LOL
Why can't or won't you ask your gf to stop sleeping with her? Seems like a simple request to me.