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Old 07-08-2011, 01:21 PM
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Not properly communicating desires/limits with each other
Placing excessive rules on outside relationships
Attempting to isolate a partner
People not willing to meet you halfway
Partners who give you none or very little power in the decisionmaking of your relationship
Metamours who don't welcome you
metamours who refuse to work through their own problems
People not wanting to give your relationship a label even after being together for months
Highly closeted folks
That seems to be a useful list, for all types of relationships even. It must have been hard to have been launched into a situation with any of these problems on your first introduction to polyamory, but its hopeful to see you've come out of that quite well.
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