Thanks, to the both of you.
And cheesecake, I understand what you mean about bisexuality also being pressed away, but I never really made the connection between the two funnily enough. But that does elucidate things a little, and being myself is certainly top of my list. Thanks.
You didn't talk too much about yourself at all, I found your advice quite useful.
And, cheesecake is just awesome. Cherry, chocolate, mocha, new york, ah, I'm hungry just thinking about it.