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Old 10-15-2009, 08:14 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Ah, well, that's painful. There's little you can do as long as he's in denial of his own issues. If he begins to regularly turn his issues into issues with you--acting out towards you--then you may have to step away and allow him to suffer alone. When he's acting to help himself, then you step back in to support his effort. It's painful to watch a lover self-destruct, though sometimes it's necessary to keep everybody else from harm.
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