I learn best, and am most comfortable - in any situation - if I have some vague notion what to expect. My fiancee (and the one who introduced me to this idea) has been very supportive in sharing her thoughts and feelings on the subject.
But I'd like to hear about others experiences with polyamory. Did you go looking, fall into it by circumstance, or were you introduced. How did the first time go? Were there pre-event butterflys? Did your partner show/share jealousy or some other emotion? Are there things you'd do different? What pit-falls could us noobs easily avoid if we had your experience?
Thanks in advance... I look forward to hearing your stories.
I'm always right... 'til my fiancee tells me otherwise.