Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Staying in an unhealthy realtionship has little to do with how much back bone you have...it has a lot to do with feeling like you can't do any better. That is a self confidence and self worth issue.
That is a great point, and more accurately describes how I feel.
Originally Posted by River
You're in love with her?!
I find myself more fond of her than anyone I have ever known for many reasons.
I'm beginning to feel though, that I should find someone that expresses love the same way I do. I'm having a really difficult time with the poly the way she wants it.
Although leaving would be hard for me, because I want to think she feels just as strongly for me as I do her. I just don't want to walk away from that.
Grrrr... human affections.. lol