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Old 10-15-2009, 01:57 PM
Karelia Karelia is offline
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Sweetie - you are definitely not off base, and I've wondered most of what you suggested myself. I do think it's possible that part of me may have been trying to demonstrate I don't deserve their love.

My best friend put it very succinctly: "You're nosy and insecure."

That combo is what led to this...

But he and I are doing fine now. I think that he understands this was an anomaly for me, and knows I am truly remorseful. We'll see...

Part of the problem lies in behaviors both of us are seeing in her that have us questioning the long term stability of this triad. We talked at length about it last night (she was at work) and plan to give it a week (she's been sick) to see how things go...
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