Your words have helped. Not knowing much about this lifestyle, yet, has made it difficult to know what to say and how. Knowing that someone else in 'The Life' sees it similarly to my perception of it, helps me gain momentum. Perhaps I am on-track to understanding it all. Thank you for your frankness and openness.
Can you tell me, are there any other places on teh net like this one, but, set up more for socializing, maybe even live chats to discuss this and get more info in real time? Thank you in advance for any insights you may have.