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Old 07-07-2011, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted by zenchaos View Post
I know he'd listen if I told him how I felt but I don't know how to tell him because I don't see what he could do about it. I don't like the idea (or the sight) of him being intimate with another woman, but even more, I don't like the idea of him having to give something up because of me, such as publicly showing affection towards her.
Sometimes, you have to give some to get some. There is no reason why you would have to hang out with his OSOs if you don't want to, or why you should be having to watch their PDA. If you like them as people, set up individual hang-out dates with your metamours and reserve together time with him for just the two of you.

Originally Posted by zenchaos View Post
I think I just want the pride of knowing that there's something about me that no other woman can provide and I wish he didn't need to see another woman to fulfill his emotional needs.
But there is something about you no other woman can provide! Why else would he be with you since he already has one woman in her life?
Me: bi female in my twenties
Dating: Moonlightrunner
Metamour: Windflower
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