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Old 07-06-2011, 08:01 PM
Minxxa Minxxa is offline
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I agree that the OSO should definitely be asked how they feel about it. Hubs and I had this discussion recently because he had brought up a subject that his GF wasn't aware he had shared. We found this out over drinks and dinner.

She wasn't upset (I don't think), but it made it clear to him that while he wanted to tell me everything, he needed to be more mindful about that and if in doubt, ask her first. It was a good lesson for him.

For myself I know I do get curious about what goes on, but I don't know that knowing everything that goes on is at all helpful. I've never asked for full disclosure as I do want to respect his GFs privacy, and now when my mind starts wandering to "what's going on", I just tell it to STOP! And remind myself "that is not my relationship." It's getting easier...
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