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Old 07-05-2011, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Perhaps. At the very least, writing it out could help you sort out what you want to say, whether you speak to her or give it to her to read.



If you approach it with love and compassion, that's the best you can do. You have no control over what she does with the information. If she chooses to be upset about it, that's on her. If she refuses to accept your poly-ness, that's on her. All you can do is be honest, and express what you need to express in the kindest way you can. But sometimes it takes being a little firm to get people to take their blinders off.
Thank you. You and everyone else who has given me advice. I always appreciate it.
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