Originally Posted by Syl
"• As far as knowing that one would want more than one partner goes, that's not unusual among poly folk." I'm sorry, I'm not making all of the connections and understanding here. Could you elaborate?
Those of us who identify as poly know that we can love more than one person, that we are happiest when we are allowed to love one person. That doesn't necessarily mean that we always know who that person might be, just that we are open to the possibility. My husband, Runic Wolf, is poly as well, but he has not had very much success in finding another female love. He knows that he has more love to give and that he would like another female in his life, but hasn't found that person yet. I don't think that is where your lover is at, but probably where he'd start out if he truly believes he is poly.