Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
Mono-your relationship is poly-just not the same as some other poly people. QUOTE]
I'm black and white. One night stands are not poly. There's no give in this for me. But I again digress..it's just a word.
Just to put this in perspective (not to attack you) there are a lot of monogamous people with their black and white definitions out there who would also say you're not monogamous in your current relationship structure.
This is where it's great to add the qualifier, "for myself" when using such definitions.