Originally Posted by Silia
It's mostly just that I generally need a lot of wind up, a night out, sexy clothes, that kind of stuff to get in the mood, because it can be really hard for me right now. After a night out, however, he generally just likes to crash out.
Next time you go out, keep it a short night so that he still has some steam. Tell him you want to get home to show off your sexy lingerie, go fuck him in the car, whatever, but make sure he knows what you want so he doesn't crash.