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Old 07-04-2011, 01:26 AM
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The way I see it, folks labelled as "love addicts" are people with a gaping hole in their heart centers. They feel and behave like "hungry ghosts" because they are deeply wounded by not having been properly loved during some crucial moments in their human development. They do have a problem, alright. They are starved, and don't know how to nourish themselves or be nourished by others.
It occurs to me that they are really addicted to their idea of what love is, not love itself.
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