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Old 07-03-2011, 10:41 PM
ClosetPoly ClosetPoly is offline
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Re-reading this thread fills me with sadness for my own shortcomings. It is SO coloured by feelings, rather than facts. Not good. I am actually feeling ashamed. This is sadly reflecting how I often communicate, poorly and inadequately, saying what I think will resolve the situation, rather than what I can stand for. I see this is another of my issues I need to work on.

TP: Busted. :-) Vanilla is *really* starting to get a grasp on sniffing out when I say something I don't mean, and that really helps. What I have realised recently though is that in this, there is almost no selfishness, within reason, it's coping and surviving. And if this is gonna work for all of us, I have to man up and be "selfish" enough to say what I feel, not what I think I want to feel.
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