The Palmer song is really not my kind of music, but the reason she wrote it is interesting. I had no clue some women waxed their girls genitals at 8! Then again I'm not surprised, I have heard that some did the same for their kids' legs or armpits. I remember reading a blog post with a mother telling another to go get laser done before it first grew and that her daughter would thank her later.
I think it's sad people don't see it as a choice anymore. I mean of course people can wax, save, trim, but let them decide at least, not their parents. It seems super intrusive to me.