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Old 06-30-2011, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Somegeezer View Post
New news - Cherry has just found out about someone I USED TO love a great deal. It has hurt her a lot . . .
I don't understand how your past love hurts her. Does she think you lived in a bubble before meeting her?

I agree that this does not bode well for the future if she has such an immature view (but I think you are a very mature person for your age!) and is so possessive that you can't have a past. The problem is not how you communicate, I am sure; it is how she listens (or refuses to listen).

She's a member here - maybe she can post about her issues with it?
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