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Old 06-29-2011, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted by serialmonogamist View Post
Doesn't it also confuse polyamorous people to know how to balance loving someone with making them share you?
Making them?... hmmm. Share you?... hmmm.

Well, people are not property to be shared. They have free will. And everyone in the relationship(s) has a choice. The concept of making anyone tolerate something they didn't want doesn't sound very loving.
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