Originally Posted by Tinyblu
The weird part is that I showed him a side of me that I didn't know existed before he really started pushing. I had had a few drinks and we were in a very sexually charged atmosphere and I connected with a beautiful woman and in my "altered" state told him it would be OK if he wanted to invite her back to the room with us. He didn't pursue that, but the next time we saw each other we had the unfortunate threesome incident.
Might I also recommend remaining sober this trip? Or at least limiting consumption so you don't get even moderately intoxicated? I only suggest this because of the possibility of him pushing while your inhibitions are already artificially lowered, and possibly putting you in another bad situation.
Remember that drunken consent is NOT consent. YOUR drunken consent is not consent. That does extend to getting drunk with his other girlfriend and hopping into bed with her. Make sure your guy understands that, if it's important to you and might be a possibility.