Wow I didn't know the relationship between a lovers lover (?) had that name. My two lovers had been friends for a year before I hooked up. It strained it at first but they worked through it and are still the best of buds. The fact that Lover can bake the best foods, and Jewel can pick out some of the best beers is a major plus, and a kick ass dinner. I love the communication they have together. Sometimes I get nervous when Jewel goes over to his house alone, because I am worried about what they say about me. I didn't do it I swear.