Basically what Minxxa
I just found out that my SIL has been in a 20 year emotionally abusive relationship with occassional violence. From talking with her in great detail, what you have described sounds very similar, even if the details are different, including how she reacted to everything.
Originally Posted by southerngirl
We were in that relationship for about 3 years with a couple of breakups. I never really liked her although I tried very hard and did eventually feel honest affection for her. But she was violent and needy and just cold and mean to other people unnecessarily. Even though I was in a relationship and had sex with her and tried my best, I just always thought of her as a homewrecker and, at her core, a bad human being.
If you didn't like her why in the hell were you sleeping with her?