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Old 06-28-2011, 03:12 AM
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You're talking about wanting variety versus the nesting instinct. Eh, so many variables, ya know. Not every woman experiences their menstrual periods the same way. For example, I never had PMS and very rarely had cramps, ever. Meanwhile, some women are unable to go to work, as they are doubled up in pain. Psychology and conditioning have a lot to do with it. Were you told as a young girl that your period was a curse or a friend? That kind of thing. But seriously, if I was single I fucked around, when I was committed and monogamous, I didn't -- and I was never one to feel tempted by attractions when monogamous. I pretty much always had the same appetite for sex throughout any given month, so for me my menstrual cycle did not factor into anything other than what to wear.
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