Great news!! As some of you may have heard, Redpepper's Mom basically had a medical appointment made for Redpepper's son out of concern for his welfare. She wondered if I was abusing him and if our relationship dynamic was causing physiological issues. Well, the Doc not only said he is perfectly fine, but also sort of congratulated all three of us in how we are handling our relationship in a healthy way! He was apparently pretty open minded. Redpepper's husband called me right after the appointment to give me the good news..I'm sure Redpepper will have more to say on this issue...Woohooo!!