Thank you for your response FT!
Thank you so much for responding FreeTime.
I will remember and will be conscious to be gentle with myself and with my T.
I really connected with a lot of the same thoughts and feelings you have been going through and I continue to. This has not been easy for me but your words of walking this journey with my head held up and a smile on my face gives me confidence to do this!
We have only been discussing and reading about this but the emotional turmoil it has created in me has been profound. It has really made me take a look at myself and what I want! I guess one difference between you and I is that instead of my wife just wanting to be poly, I do too.
I will be posting on here as I have seen how the others have helped and continue to help guide you on your journey.
I will start a new thread so as not to hijack yours and as my wife and I move along this path I will be reaching out to everyone who has walked this journey before me.
Thank you and I will take you up on that seat you are saving me in the sunlight!