Originally Posted by redpepper
Why does he want you to participate? Extra bodies again? Or is there more for him? It sounds like maybe you are not clear on this.... again back to Seasnail question... are you worried he will leave you for men?
Yes a bit due to him repressing it for so long. That he hasn't been up front with me about his interests for many years makes it hard to know if he is or isn't still doing that to some extent.
I only asked GSpirit why my partner wants me to participate if I'm the sole source of his anxiety because that poster seems intent on seeing what they want rather than something closer to the situation at hand.