Trust your intuition! The word literally means "inner teacher" or "inner guide" and if you are in tune with it, that is the best counsel you can seek.
If it does not sit well with you to be his fuck buddy with no chance of developing into a more meaningful relationship, then do not do it. I get the sense that you might consider it, because maybe in the back of your mind you think that doing so might "turn him around" and make him want more with you -- but that's a gamble that will most likely go kablooey in your face.
It's good that you had a talk and got more clarity about his position and feelings.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein
Last edited by nycindie; 06-26-2011 at 08:34 PM.