Originally Posted by serialmonogamist
I've read so many posts that make it seem like anyone who doesn't act on all their impulses is somehow living a lie.
If everyone acted on every impulse this world would be severely fucked IMO. Luckily we have higher reasoning and an overall sense of morality that controls some of our instinctive and base impulses.
Trying to control a healthy part of ourselves (such as being poly or mono) is likely to erode who we are and what we could become.
This is more about following the right path for us as thinking individuals as opposed to following our nose like a scent sniffing dog.