Very interesting posts. We are a bi-sexual couple who is seeking a third male for a long term relationship. We find plenty of guys to play with, but the idea of them entering into our relationship on an intimate level, seems to confuse them. They say that they are up for it, but we learn rather quickly that they are not. What we want is a relationship where we each care about the other the same, no favorites, just adoration for each other. Everyone gets what they want and need. Seems simple and logical right...? So why such a challenge to find?