Babies are tougher than you think, Hades. "My" boys are 7 mos old now, and strong as tiny oxen.
PS, I adore cats and don't have one now and am in severe kitty withdrawal.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37