I've never cuddled another adult who was not someone I was in a sexual relationship with. My gf and I love to cuddle, I am a very touchy feely person. However, I am also a highly sexual person and sometimes she just wants a long cuddle with no sexual touching, and I have to tamp down my desires...
However, I do get to cuddle babies, and hug a 4 year old, every week in my job and I love it. It's so relaxing.
Last night my son (he's 20) gave me a long backrub and it was sooo wonderful. He has magic fingers. Ahhhh... He started giving us backrubs when he was only 8 and I swear sometimes he did my back more good than my chiropractor could.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37