Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
It honestly is what I consider to be the magic bullet for the type of poly relationship we have and desire; one where we can all come together as friends and as a tribe and be completely at ease with the fluidity of affection and attention. You don't build a big tribe like that quickly but the one you do build like that has strength and stability
This is what I'm hoping for. We are still in early stages, none of the metamours have yet met each other, but my husband and girlfriend are meeting in a few days. I'm a bit nervous but exited! I'm also meeting my girlfriend's husband in a few weeks, and the guys will meet somewhere during the summer.
I'm really hoping that everybody can form friendships of their own, and eventually become family. I'm not expecting this, and if it doesn't work out like that it won't be the end of the world. I have no doubts about everybody getting along on a basic level, and that's really the minimum. I have a very close friend, and her relationship with my husband is pretty much that: they get along but rarely hang out together, and the relationships are pretty separate. I can live with that, and I know I can make it work also if it's the case with hubby and gf. But if they do become friends, it's a dream come true for me. <3