Why can't people accept that being treated fairly doesn't mean being treated the same.
You just summed up my personal political position and all the issues I have with modern liberal policies in one sentence, lol.
Joedirte - that is ROUGH, man. A few years ago one of the best friendships I have ever had was ruined by a not quitee the same situation (no poly involved, his GF kept hitting on me whe he wasn't around and I was held responsible for it, lol). The three of you REALLY need to sit and talk this out. Soon, and at length.