Originally Posted by dingedheart
I think any decision to have children is a huge one. He would be tied to those children legally for at minimum the first 18yrs and ideally life. Time, attention and resources being finite it has to be factor into a women thinking....to provide the best, most stable environment as possible. By the simple fact that they are married and he could be making a decision that most certainly will effect her for as long as all those involved are a live....I think it does relate to her. Not unrelated.....actually they would become "related"
Not previously mentioned in any of my posts, we already have a 3 year old son and currently trying for another child. Hubs has a daughter from a young and dumb previous relationship that we struggle to see and still have to support. I would love to meet someone that already has children, but it is both of our wishes that they do not expect to have children with us.